10 things that you didn't know about men and sex - Men do their fair share of hiding too, especially when it comes to sex. But, if you thought women to be complicated, believing men are easy to figure out with their needs easily met, then you certainly need to revise your knowledge of the "birds and bees," for men aren't as simple as they are made out to be.

According to studies, here are 10 things that you didn't know about men and sex:

1. He is more nervous than you

Men like to show themselves very confident on the first date and the "first time" but as worried as you may be about the way you look under the sheets, your guy is probably more worried about how he'll perform, because he really wants to impress you.

2. He wants to look good too

In case you are putting on some extra weight, wearing sweats around the house and no longer putting on your makeup, your man will see that you are not putting any extra effort to be attractive to him any longer. Your man is no doubt lovable and caring and love you unconditionally, but he very much needs your attention and needs to be attracted to the woman he's with. So do be careful. Not that he starts looking elsewhere for attention and attraction.

3. Men fall in love faster than women

It's not the women, but men, who get out of control after a glimpse of the right attractive face and fall head over heels in love immediately, claimed love researcher Dr. Helen Fisher.

4. Blast from the past

He might share some funny incidences of college life or with friends but he will never share dirty details like how many girls he has slept with or whether he's cheated on his ex. Don't expect him to give you many details about his past sex life.

5. His fantasies

Every one has some fantasies like Tom cruise and Pamela Anderson and no one will hide in fact flaunt the same to tease their partner, but he won't tell you his fantasies of you and another woman.

6. His cuddle hormones 

It is believed that oxytocin not only affects females during sex and breast-feeding, but that this cuddle hormone is also found to influence men during intimacy. Research from Switzerland found that oxytocin is associated with increased feelings of trust in males.

7. The ex factor

There can never be a right answer to this question: Are you better than her? If it's 'yes', why the hell does he remember the details of time spent with her, and if it's 'no' (unless he's really stupid it will never be!), you'll make sure you're the last person he's capable of sleeping with.

8. Family affects testosterone

As a man becomes increasingly attached to his family, his testosterone level goes down, according to a 2001 Mayo Clinic study. Particularly, fathers experience a significant decline in levels of testosterone with the birth of his child, especially when he holds the baby.

9. High testosterone means less sex

While higher testosterone levels is typically considered a good thing for men when it comes to their sex drive, still researchers continually found that males with higher testosterone levels marry less often, are more abusive in their marriages and divorce more regularly. In fact, statistics show that married men see more action than single men.

10. Men like 'unusual' sex

Men have a 20 to 1 likeliness against women to practice an "unusual" and often socially unacceptable or illegal behavior, for example exhibitionism.

Conclusion

Women can definitely keep secrets; but only their own. Your man doesn't need to know every detail about your embarrassing incidents, your issues with your exes, much less the reason you stayed locked up in the bathroom for hours.

The reason most guys won't dish out the dirt on themselves is that they won't risk their worst fears, better yet their fantasies, from being used against them later. And ladies, you know you will use them the first time he pisses you off.

Ladies, do you know of any secrets your man is hiding from you? Would you like to share them with us? We would all really like to know, so please leave a hot comment bellow.

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Author: Tom Retterbush